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A great weekend

Petr had two playoff games on Saturday. The early one they did not play at their best and came away with a draw. The afternoon game they played way above themselves and won 3-2 over a great team. After adding up the AYSO tournament scoring numbers, Petr’s team had made it to the Semifinals to be played Sunday morning.
This weekend also marked a record 7th time in the calendar year that Real Madrid met Barcelona. Every time they meet it is known in Spain as “El Clasico.” Real Madrid has had a bad run as of late, and Saturday showed their fortune has not changed, as they lost 3-1 at home. Not the makings of a great weekend for me, a Real fan.
Sunday was a better day. I was asked to teach the High School group at church because the youth pastor is on a missions trip to Uganda. That went really well, but I did miss one of Petr’s soccer games in the morning.
They won the morning game which meant they were going to play in the AYSO East County Final. Of all the teams from Alpine, Jamul, Lakeside, Santee, El Cajon and La Mesa it had come down to these two.
At around the 2 minute mark, they gave up a penalty on a handball inside the area. The boy from the other team struck it hard and right into the net off a slight deflection from the keepers hands after a great dive. Knowing that Petr’s team had been playing a bit above themselves for most of the tournament, I feared that would be a tough goal to overcome. I was wrong! Good coaching, great defending, awesome goalkeeping and constant passes forward left the other team exposed to the counter attack, time after time. The game ended 5-1. So Petr’s team is now the regional AYSO champion U10 team.

That is a great weekend. (Now we get to go play in the Southern California tournament in February.)
Another week of Slurpees
Petr has really picked up his game in the last few weeks. I think he is learning he can actually do it. This means more things for me to learn as a parent. He has become a bit more aggressive and seems to have an interest in making things happen.
Petr played in the regional AYSO playoffs this weekend. His team played against Alpine. The run of play was mostly one way for Petr’s team with close to 70% of the possession. The other team had one player who was a constant threat to counter attack, but they did not produce any real scoring chances in the first half.
The first half also had Petr’s great shot, probably his best of the season. It came at the end of a great play, which at this level is quite rare. Most goals come from the outstanding play of a single player. One of his teammates gathered the ball around midfield and moved down the field, eventually laying it off to his right, where Petr, in his regular form, was excellently positioned. He tapped it forward and finished with a strong strike. Unfortunately it was straight at the keeper who made the save.
The second half saw more of the same, Petr’s team enjoying the majority of the possession, but no goals were coming. Off of a goal kick, the ball bounced to Petr. He was near the right sideline about even with the center circle, just inside the offensive half. He wound up his leg and struck the ball on a half volley. It soared over everyone, including the keeper, finding the upper left corner of the net, 1-0.
He was really excited. He continued to play with a renewed sense of passion. They went on to win 2-1. They got another good goal from their best player and gave one up on a counter by the other teams best player.
After the game he said to me, “I thought that kind of goal could only be scored by someone on Real Madrid or something!” Sometimes it just takes a taste of success for us to grasp God’s design in our lives. The hard work never seems like it is going to pay off, so graciously He lets us score from time to time. Sometimes He also rewards us when we do well. Petr will be getting slurpees every day this week.
Thanksgiving
We had a wonderful time for Thanksgiving with my family yesterday. It was the first time we had Thanksgiving with them since 2007. I am very thankful for the way that God has provided for our family over those last four years.
The basis for most of the world’s economy is that workers create wealth, either for themselves or for someone else and are compensated for that creation of wealth. The last three years God supported us with all we needed all while I was not creating wealth in an economic sense.
We returned to the USA during the worst economic conditions in my lifetime. In spite of that, God provided a very great job for me to do. I enjoy the work, I enjoy my coworkers and I am compensated enough to provide for all our family’s needs, even a few of our wants.
I am even thankful for tender meat, even if it is a bird.
Brrrr



I spent the weekend on Mount San Gorgonio. The first weekend in November is often cold up there, but I have never seen so much snow, and so low. We started seeing snow on the ground at around 4,000′ and it was about the same amount, 4″-6″ as it was much higher. Once we got above 7,000′ I do not think it ever got above freezing, which was actually really nice because it meant everything was very dry, and beautiful.
My dad agreed to go along on the trip over a month ago. We even contemplated what clothes to wear and I talked him out of bringing shorts. The weather got all crazy, but having already committed to go, he ended up on his first (and probably last) snow trip. We had a great time.
We were also with both of Cammy’s brothers, Charlie and Brandon, as well as Mason, Brandon’s oldest, and Brandon’s brother-in-law Art and his son Josh. At 7, we were a big group that headed up into the snow at Vivian’s Creek above Forest Falls. We did not summit, but we made a good go of it. We did not have a lot of time to plan and prepare for and adventure in that kind of weather.
We made it out on Sunday just before they were going to need snow plows. Which was fortunate since only Art had 4×4 and chains.
The first goal = Slurpees

As I have posted about the boys soccer you may get the idea that I am more than a little frustrated with their drive to accomplish something. So I wanted to give them an incentive to play harder, a carrot to give them a taste for winning. I said that if they won their game, I would buy them a Slurpee. I wanted to be careful to make sure they were learning the game, so I did not want to incentivize any particular stat or action, just win.
Cammy, in the heat of the moment, said, “If you score a goal I will buy you a Slurpee every day of the week!” I mumbled, “What if they are playing keeper?”
Andrej played keeper on Saturday, but only for the final quarter. He never touched the ball. In the first half though, he played midfield. He had his most aggressive match yet, and guess what. Cammy is buying him a Slurpee today, and tomorrow, and… well you can figure it out.
This is a great encouragement for me, in my life, as it should be for you. We can change the way we live life, we can become proactive where we have been reactive. It should also encourage Petr. He will have to ride home Slurpee-less every day this week.
Lessons from Soccer
Almost all the soccer I watched in the last 3 years was either the World Cup, Real Madrid or some of the English Premier league. When I watch them play, and these are some of the best players in the world, I sometimes get frustrated with their bad decisions or physical errors they make.
Last Saturday the boys had their first real games for AYSO. We had been at Lake Powell the week before so they missed a couple of games.
Andrej played first, he is 6 and playing on a U7 team. Watching a bunch of 6 year olds play can be a little frustrating. However, almost all of them seem like they are having fun, and the game resembles very little of what I am used to watching. Andrej did well, he has a defender’s mentality. It reminds me a little of how my brother played. When Andrej was striker for the last quarter he kept tracking back on defense. Even after his mom said she would buy him a slurpee every day of the week if he scored!
Petr’s game came after lunch. For an 8-year-old, he has a really good head for the game. He is almost always in the right place and keeps his head up looking for where to pass the ball. However, he does not seem to have any passion for it. His head is in the game, but not his heart. I had to exercise a lot of self-restraint in letting the coach coach and stay silent on the sidelines. As Cammy and I were discussing it during the game she said, “I am sure this is how God feels when He sees us living our lives.”
Another great lesson from life learned by parenting. How often are we doing many of the right things, being in the right place at the right time, only to have no passion to “go get it,” as we are supposed to? Another opportunity to excel passes us by. A chance to be a part of something great. Praise Him who has more patience and self-restraint than I do.
Petr really did well, and in the last quarter he was playing left midfield. He was at the back post on every run forward, perfectly positioned for a cross. One did come his way and he had a good shot forcing the keeper to parry it just outside the post. If only he was more confident with his left foot, the whole right side of the goal was open…(Yes, I am looking in the spiritual mirror as I say that…)
Lake Powell

The week before I started work we had the opportunity to get away with the Idlers to Lake Powell where Cammy’s parent’s have a houseboat. The boys really had a great time, much like they did last year. It was a great relaxing time for the grown ups as well.
First day of work

I had my first day of work today. God continues to provide for us.
First Day of School


The boys were off to school today. Life keeps moving forward.


